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AuraTwilight wrote:This topic makes me glad I'm gay. Guys don't care if you're too busy playing a videogame so long as you penis them afterwards, or let them play.

Well, you're not technically gay, being both just kinda puts you in a whole different category.

AuraTwilight wrote:This topic makes me glad I'm gay. Guys don't care if you're too busy playing a videogame so long as you penis them afterwards, or let them play.

0.o, wtf are you talking about?

Well, you're not technically gay, being both just kinda puts you in a whole different category.

I'm a guy. I have a penis and I like penis. Therefore I am gay.

Are you people retarded?

I think what AT is trying to say is that he prefers to have a male partner over a female partner because males like videogames more often than not


I have to disagree with AT though there are plenty of girls who like videogames just maybe not the same videogames the guys play. These cases (The videos) are not rare but you have to keep in mind these people are extremists meaning either the girls do require and "extreme" amount of attention or the guys do play videogames for an "extreme" amount of time


On a side note I think it's disrespectful to call your girlfriend over to your house and just play videogames totally ignorings her this is not an issue though if they live together.

No, what I'm saying is that men on the whole tend not to smash other people's **** due to being attention-starved little ****. In general, women tend to base their relationships on feelings and emotional security, and men on utility and dependability. It's an evolutionary thing; though exceptions exist, women are predisposed towards wanting to be appreciated emotionally, and men want to be useful and reliable. Therefore, a man is less likely to lash out in anger because you're not giving them a perceived quota of attention.

Mirus wrote:So youre saying, the more useful a woman is the more men might like her?

No, its that we expect ourselves to be useful. Why do you think some guys have self esteem issues about having a small penis? Its not because they can't get off, its because they think its unable to make a girl get off.

Mirus wrote:So youre saying, the more useful a woman is the more men might like her?

Did you read anything he said?

Mirus wrote:So youre saying, the more useful a woman is the more men might like her?

Since you're apparently blind,

men want to be useful and reliable.

@Erranty: Men would not feel that way if they werent so busy watching adult movies and actualy study the anatomy and science behind it

@S1lentOp: Yes

@AuraTwilight: I was actually looking at this part :

AuraTwilight wrote:In general, women tend to base their relationships on feelings and emotional security, and men on utility and dependability.

I thought you meant women want to be in a romantic relationship and men in a practical one

Sorry it was just something that stood out to me because of a recent personal experience

On a side note I really am parcially blind but I don't like wearing glasses and contacts hurt me! (@.@)

Eh. This whole situation was inate in general. Sure, destroy my console because I'm not giving you any attention. While you're at it, destroy my computer, demolish my cellphone, terminate all television, blow up a few bars, burn my porn tapes, kill my friends, etc. What the women in this situation failed to understand, is that there are plenty of other distractions that can deprive them of attention from their boyfriends...

ACHEIVEMENT UNLOCKED
Used your selfish needs to cloud your own judgement in an already unstable relationship.

Mirus wrote:@Erranty: Men would not feel that way if they werent so busy watching adult movies and actualy study the anatomy and science behind it

You have no idea how right you are.

Funny story, I was bowling a while back, and in the middle of my game I see a bunch of people come in, like 50 or something. Then I realized I knew some of them were porn stars... I talked with one that I watched before and apparent they had a "Pornstar bowling league" and I was around to see one. But from the looks of things, I'd say most pornstars are actually pretty short (though I'm 6 foot tall) and that's why the guy's look so "big" on camera, its because they're "Technically" large for their body size, but normal by most people's standards.

tldr: Pornstars are short, their "big" stuff only looks big on camera.

Mirus wrote:Men would not feel that way if they werent so busy watching adult movies and actualy study the anatomy and science behind it

I know women who watch just as much pr0nz as most men do, and they still don't have as much of an out in the open attitude to sex as the men I know who watch next to no pr0nz at all. That sort of thing is instinctual, and men are bound to think in that way regardless of what they study or not. In fact, it's because they think that way that they watch pr0nz in the first place, not the other way round...

nobodyknows wrote:

Mirus wrote:Men would not feel that way if they werent so busy watching adult movies and actualy study the anatomy and science behind it

I know women who watch just as much pr0nz as most men do, and they still don't have as much of an out in the open attitude to sex as the men I know who watch next to no pr0nz at all. That sort of thing is instinctual, and men are bound to think in that way regardless of what they study or not. In fact, it's because they think that way that they watch pr0nz in the first place, not the other way round...

I wouldn't really call that "instinctual". Sure, an instinctual thing is to thing that "the bigger, the better", as after all, most clans choose the biggest member as the leader and the strongest, and overall a bigger size in the animal world is often considered as superiority over others. With penis size it could technically be the same, but...how would you know you're actually big or not, all by yourself? There's no way to know except comparing yourself to others, hearing things about it, seeing about what would be "big" or not, and if a guy realizes he's small then, he'll feel so very insecure and "useless", thinking he'll just be laughed at and won't be able to satisfy a girl (like Erranty said). But, if that guy would be all by his own, without hearing any comments about penis size, watching any kind of material that would involve the size, or reading anything about it, he wouldn't even be concerned about his size in the slighlest, and he could live a perfectly healthy life, pleasure girls and have children, and everything else without ever caring about the size.
It's not instinctual, but in the current world we're living, and living an average life...there's no way he won't find out he's smaller than average and start feeling bad about it, unless he's a very special case with so much great self-esteem that he's still confident and proud on himself while knowing that. That would practically be the best choice to take, but, it's hard for men with such condition to start thinking like that.

In general, women tend to base their relationships on feelings and emotional security, and men on utility and dependability.

While that's true for a general overview of things, and that's really how indeed both men and women base their relationships....half the time, what the men base their relationships on is how much the girls gives them stuff and have sex with them. It technically falls on the "utility and dependability" part, but at least from what i've seen around here, guys don't really mind how useful they're for their girls, or how much they depend of them....as long as the girl listens to them and have sex with them, they're more than happy and consider it as a "great relationship" ~3~'

*shakes head* The men where you live Sorrow are so shallow. All they care about is how much sex they get out of relationship? That is pitiful indeed. Aren't relationships supposed to be more than just sleeping with people? I side with Mirus on this one, most men just want to use the girl in a relationship.

TheSorrow wrote:

nobodyknows wrote:

Mirus wrote:Men would not feel that way if they werent so busy watching adult movies and actualy study the anatomy and science behind it

I know women who watch just as much pr0nz as most men do, and they still don't have as much of an out in the open attitude to sex as the men I know who watch next to no pr0nz at all. That sort of thing is instinctual, and men are bound to think in that way regardless of what they study or not. In fact, it's because they think that way that they watch pr0nz in the first place, not the other way round...

I wouldn't really call that "instinctual". Sure, an instinctual thing is to thing that "the bigger, the better", as after all, most clans choose the biggest member as the leader and the strongest, and overall a bigger size in the animal world is often considered as superiority over others. With penis size it could technically be the same, but...how would you know you're actually big or not, all by yourself? There's no way to know except comparing yourself to others, hearing things about it, seeing about what would be "big" or not, and if a guy realizes he's small then, he'll feel so very insecure and "useless", thinking he'll just be laughed at and won't be able to satisfy a girl (like Erranty said). But, if that guy would be all by his own, without hearing any comments about penis size, watching any kind of material that would involve the size, or reading anything about it, he wouldn't even be concerned about his size in the slighlest, and he could live a perfectly healthy life, pleasure girls and have children, and everything else without ever caring about the size.
It's not instinctual, but in the current world we're living, and living an average life...there's no way he won't find out he's smaller than average and start feeling bad about it, unless he's a very special case with so much great self-esteem that he's still confident and proud on himself while knowing that. That would practically be the best choice to take, but, it's hard for men with such condition to start thinking like that.

In general, women tend to base their relationships on feelings and emotional security, and men on utility and dependability.

While that's true for a general overview of things, and that's really how indeed both men and women base their relationships....half the time, what the men base their relationships on is how much the girls gives them stuff and have sex with them. It technically falls on the "utility and dependability" part, but at least from what i've seen around here, guys don't really mind how useful they're for their girls, or how much they depend of them....as long as the girl listens to them and have sex with them, they're more than happy and consider it as a "great relationship" ~3~'

I kind of misunderstood what Mirus said... I thought she was talking about men's attitudes to sex in general, and how openly they express those attitudes, regardless of their influences...

Mirus wrote:
On a side note: It really angers me that men don't have enough blood for both of their "heads" to function properly

That's often only the case during sex. Most men are capable of controlling their desires, and surpressing them to whatever degree is humanly possible... except the completely immature bastards...

*shakes head* The men where you live Sorrow are so shallow. All they care about is how much sex they get out of relationship? That is pitiful indeed. Aren't relationships supposed to be more than just sleeping with people? I side with Mirus on this one, most men just want to use the girl in a relationship.

I know, and it's true...most men just want to "use" the girl in a relationship, treating her indeed like nothing more but a cumdumpster that will buy them beer and stuff, will want sex all the time, and are "useless" except for those mentioned things and for when taking them to parties, but it's not a real problem...if the girl doesn't go with them, they'll find someone else in the party, and possibly date that new girl since she did agreed to have sex there. And being honest, none of the guys i've met around here where i live (that i've met at least enough to talk about), treat girls and their relationships any different than that....perhaps only my brother, but he lives in the very situation as me, and even he somewhat tends to just go outright with sex X_x I have to admit i'm not that different to him...but well, i am a virgin -3-'

The reason the media is so concentrated on your size is because girls want to torture you like you torture us into thinking bigger boobs are better, make sense? If a girl says you're too small she just wants to get to you.

It's all the media's fault. The media wants us to think that bigger boobs are better, bigger penises are better, and if you don't have them big enough, then you must feel bad until you buy those over 9000 products and everything so you get bigger sizes and therefore you then can be loved and be "beautiful" for everyone else. But meh, i'm well happy with my own size, and i actually prefer girls with smaller boobs than larger boobs...after all, i'd like to hug my girl without a freaking wall of pillows in-between -3-

On a side note: It really angers me that men don't have enough blood for both of their "heads" to function properly

If a guy doesn't have enough blood for a certain head to function properly, you should feel bad for him and not laugh at him :( lol

I kind of misunderstood what Mirus said... I thought she was talking about men's attitudes to sex in general, and how openly they express those attitudes, regardless of their influences...

Oh, you meant like the feelings and attitudes when it comes to having sex? Well yeah, i'd say that's instinctual, and maybe related to the personallity of the person and how much they desire actually having sex, or just enjoying the time with their partners. Supporting the opposite side for a little, maybe even watching porn could help people be more secure and confident before having sex for the first time...so if they thought they didn't know how to do it, they could get "ideas" from the video or images, and not just be at the time and have no idea what to do (even though i'd say that you'd know what to do even if you lived alone in an island all your life; cave people didn't have porn movies after all x-x' lol). Unless it was freaking bondage of something, but hey, we can't judge people's fetishes D:' lol

On the subject I think the girl overreact. I would just leave. Destroying the PS3 would spark up a fight.

In general society says bigger is better. Well I think the reverse, but that is just me. Most teens in America will see a little adult stuff somehow. I don't watch that stuff (being honest) but it does seem to be be painful to women. It painful for the woman the first time right? Well if I big once get rammed in do they get pleasure form that even if it means taking pain? Before I start how high school I didn't even know all of the stuff about sex that I know now. I just knew the basics. When people started to mention Zaseo you got to walk some you know what, and get you some I think wtf.

I might use this term wrong, but many people are sadomasochist right? They don't care if its painful as long as it good, and they would like it to be painful to the other person as long as it feels good to them? It natural for people to be curious, but gosh people can be lustful.

TheSorrow wrote: If a guy doesn't have enough blood for a certain head to function properly, you should feel bad for him and not laugh at him lol

What I meant to say was that it seems all guys can think about is sex

It's all the media's fault. The media wants us to think that bigger boobs are better, bigger penises are better, and if you don't have them big enough, then you must feel bad until you buy those over 9000 products and everything so you get bigger sizes and therefore you then can be loved and be "beautiful" for everyone else. But meh, i'm well happy with my own size, and i actually prefer girls with smaller boobs than larger boobs...after all, i'd like to hug my girl without a freaking wall of pillows in-between -3-

Incorrect. The media is only a device to deliver images and products and messages that people want to them. The media only gives this propaganda because decades before, this mentality of bigger boobs/penises, etc. arouse beforehand. The same is true of every multi-media cultural phenomena in the history of mankind.

I might use this term wrong, but many people are sadomasochist right? They don't care if its painful as long as it good, and they would like it to be painful to the other person as long as it feels good to them? It natural for people to be curious, but gosh people can be lustful.

Just about every form of sexual intercourse involves pain to some degree; it has to do with the physical makeup of men and woman apart from other animals.

What I meant to say was that it seems all guys can think about is sex

Sure, to the extent that all women can care about is looking pretty.