Minimum Requirements

[Mirus]

but this is a minimum requirements topic anyways, not "sex requirements" or something like that...unless that's your definition of a "partner".

Thank you

Lock the thread, DarkKnight just made the ultimate concluding post.

Why are you being so aggressive in this topic? -.-;


In-topic: speaking of paying, he must pay :3 always why ? I have many reasons why

[grave robbing adept rogue]

You don't need to have to meet any other requirements as long as i don't have to pay.

Well, in the end, unless you find a girl who's a freaking millionarie and you're too lazy to get a job, you'll have to end up buying something for her, something she makes you buy it, something you want to buy to her, take her somewhere and having to pay, and so on...so you WILL have to pay even if it's far from being a hooker D: Of course, it's very different to pay for any of what i mentioned than to pay for having sex...but this is a minimum requirements topic anyways, not "sex requirements" or something like that...unless that's your definition of a "partner".

... i hate you're logic...

In-topic: speaking of paying, he must pay :3 always why ? I have many reasons why

Ugh girls and there expensive requirements, I'll be back my wallet hurts

[Mirus]

Ugh girls and there expensive requirements, I'll be back my wallet hurts

Pay: Of course i'll get you your PS3 for your birthday! But guys are supposed to pay for things like dinner and such, i'll tell you why it's fair, girls suffer alot more physically and emotionally not to mention we STILL get payed less than a male, doing the same exact job.

[grave robbing adept rogue]

Ugh girls and there expensive requirements, I'll be back my wallet hurts

Pay: Of course i'll get you your PS3 for your birthday!

i dont want a ps3 for my birthday >.>

[Ratsu]

Ugh girls and there expensive requirements, I'll be back my wallet hurts

Pay: Of course i'll get you your PS3 for your birthday! But guys are supposed to pay for things like dinner and such, i'll tell you why it's fair, girls suffer alot more physically and emotionally not to mention we STILL get payed less than a male, doing the same exact job.

Physically because of child birth, yes, but men suffer emotionally just as much as girl. You have a strange and almost feminist view of men if you think we have no emotions or don't feel emotional pain.

[Mirus]

i dont want a ps3 for my birthday >.>

Then, get a good girlfriend if you dont already have one

Physically because of child birth, yes, but men suffer emotionally just as much as girl. You have a strange and almost feminist view of men if you think we have no emotions or don't feel emotional pain.

I apologize if my way of thinking (Or point of view) bother you, I am not looking for conflict and to be honest I stopped arguing with you over PMs for a reason:

I am tired of arguing with you.

So I would greatly appreciate it if you could just live with the fact that I am the way I am for a reason and I am different from you

Thanks

[AuraTwilight]

Why are you being so aggressive in this topic? -.-;

I'm not.

[TheSorrow]

There are many things that need to be replied here and discussed about before they explode...even though maybe i'll be the one to trigger the explosion for i'll raise the debate even more and there isn't currently a real debate now, but oh well, i don't feel like staying quiet, and not after i've already been part of this o3o

... i hate you're logic...

I love you too. Call me tonight, k? ;3

In-topic: speaking of paying, he must pay :3 always why ? I have many reasons why

Ugh girls and there expensive requirements, I'll be back my wallet hurts

See? There's no escape of paying for a girl unless she's a millionarie, and even so, chances are she'll be the kind of girl who's very famous and wants to have an equally-famous-and-wealthy guy, and will still demand that guy to pay for things even if she could afford them XD

Not like there's actually anything bad with paying for your girlfriend/partner/etc though. Not only it's very common that girls like their partners to buy things for her, like as a gift or simply because she saw something cute and she'd love if the guy would buy it for her, it's normal and even cute, and i personally would pay things for her and buy her things she wanted (under a range, of course....i'm not freaking buying a new car just like that, and not gifts every 3 days either, that begins to fall into the "loving because of money" thing, and that's seriously something i hate far more than sexuality dilemmas, so much that it's a minimum requirement and i'll seriously drop any girl if she starts viewing me as an "object" that buys her things and gives her money when asked). Sure, some girls ask for "expensive requirements", and it's a common and usual talking about men and how much money they spend when they have a girlfriend, and i can agree that sometimes it's ridiculous...but it's not that bad when you actually think how much you'll "spend" with her, and if you manage your money correctly and aren't a lazy bastard expecting money to come down during a rain, you'll still have enough for your videogames, car tunings, and even a drink or two with your friends.

Pay: Of course i'll get you your PS3 for your birthday! But guys are supposed to pay for things like dinner and such, i'll tell you why it's fair, girls suffer alot more physically and emotionally not to mention we STILL get payed less than a male, doing the same exact job.

Physically because of child birth, yes, but men suffer emotionally just as much as girl. You have a strange and almost feminist view of men if you think we have no emotions or don't feel emotional pain.

Yes, and no, both to Mirus and Ratsu.

First, yes, guys usually "have" to pay for dinner and some other things, and on a longer relationship (aka husband/wife), i think it's actually a legal obligation to give money to your wife. But no, it's NOT FAIR because women suffer more than men, or because they get paid less than a girl; mere examples, men are often forced to do tough works that can be very dangerous for their health simply because they're "men" (and women get it all easy)...and you know, my dad had to finish an engineer career in university to get his spot (Mechanical Engineer), while my mom didn't even finish High School, and she's somehow some sort of Lawyer-Assistant Chief who earns almost twice than my dad (...well, 20,000 vs 35,000 or something like that).
Then why it would be "fair" for guys to pay for girls? Well, it's not fair, because this isn't something that has anything to do with being fair or not. It's simply a nice gesture, a little but important sign of generousity and confidence, and you could say, chivarly. There's nothing really bad with the girl having to pay, and except for the legal part (which exists because guys usually dedicate themselves more for getting a job and girls end up supporting the family from inside...and some guys are just bastards who think all their money is for them only even when married), it shouldn't be a problem if the girl is the one to manage all the finances. But personally, i'd be happy and glad if i were the one to deal with all the money, and pay for when i take my girlfriend to places, so she doesn't have to worry about money and only to enjoy the day, and i don't have to worry either since i have a nice income of money and have already planned the money usage for the day beforehand...plus, she'll definetly feel happy and confident to have me, as the guy, fulfill such task as her partner. And apparently, this is a view i share with many other people....and though it's true that morals and education have to deal with this, my family never really told me any of it. All that is simply something i'd like to do, and would feel happy to do so. Of course, it would be great if the girl would pay things for me every once (and understand when sometimes i can't pay for stuff), and buying some gifts for me would be greatly welcomed and make me happy as well....we have to support each other, after all :P

And yeah, Mirus is a feminist alright...you'll never hear her say about how the guy suffers or has to deal with alot of problems because of girls; for her, the girl will always be the victim, the guy will always be the devil, and every problem a female has is because of a male's doing. And when talking about sex, you've already seen how negative i can get towards her and she towards me....our opinions definetly don't match and all we'll agree with is that we disagree so much with the other. So, yes, men can suffer as much as females, and obviously men have feelings too and deal with **** that girls never have to worry about. But let's be honest....none of us guys would endure the life a female has to live (physically and mentally), and almost every girl would live as a guy far better than us; life definetly teaches more to them and usually in worst ways...and guys even have the commodity to pee while standing up XD But as i mentioned before...regardless of how much a girl or guy has to do with, it's still more welcomed and a great thing to do if the guy manages the financial deals instead of the girl.

Oh, and i don't want a PS3 for my birthday...because i have one D: I want a PSP though!!!

I'm done now, even though i think it's kinda late already, but oh well XD

[Mirus]

@TheSorrow: I agree with you that a girl should not be with a guy just for the money and i'm glad you'd feel pleasure out of buying things for your significant other, girls also buy guys gifts.

I would buy something for my partner in the following sort of situations (Note that it's usually while he is not around)

A gift for his birthday, since it's a special day I wouldn't mind buying an expensive gift for him, even take him to his favorite restaurant and pay for him (Just for that day!)

If i'm at the mall and see something he might like or that reminds me of him, i'd buy it for him on any random day

When he is having a bad day or the like I'd also like to give him some sort of gift to cheer him up, maybe even make it myself, ex : cook something for him that he really likes

Lastly, times when I just feel like it

Can't think of other situations at the moment

I'd also like to thank TheSorrow for being so open-minded and welcoming to different points of view

[Azure Knight]

Don't come running back to me when you're infected with all the std's known to man (and some that have not even discovered yet)

WHO'S GOT THE CLAP? *CLAP* THESORROW'S GOT THE CLAP! *CLAP*

Also, regarding what you said about sex in this same quote which I am too lazy to go back and find, you can't blame people for having thoughts of sexual attraction. It's natural instinct, just like how you, by instinct, know to put one foot in front of the other while walking. It's because we are, however intelligent our species may be, animals. And when an animal sees another animal which it finds attractive, it's first thought is, "I want to mate with that so that I can reproduce stronger offspring." Just throwin' that out there.

I'd also like someone who isnt into those fetishes (Hopefully i'm not hurting anyone's feelings)

You don't like robots in cat suits...? DX

[Mirus]

"I want to mate with that so that I can reproduce stronger offspring." Just throwin' that out there.

If reproduction really was the sole purpose of these men overflowing with crazy hormones

I probably wouldn't be as disgusted

But obviously when you see a girl "at the club" the following is the last thing that goes through your mind:

" I feel really stressed out..and really tense, because if I don't hook up tonight the human race will become extinct forever! If today I don't "take out" all that is mine, there will be no more people in the earth!


NO

one isn't so intense!

All you want to do is wet your paint brush that's all!"- Adal Ramones


in other words all you guys want is pleasure and not really in it for reproduction, in FACT the ironic thing is , you wear condoms and force birth control pills down your partner's throat (dramatization).

But blah, whatever keep telling yourself that your lust comes from the goodness of your beating organ, the heart



on the subject of fetishes and back to topic, I'm ok with fetishes such as.. maid outfits and eye glasses , though I don't like wearing eyeglasses!

[Azure Knight]

I never said that you think that. We think "Oh, that girl is pretty hot." But the reason that we have a sex drive in the first place is so that we will want to reproduce. That's also the reason why sex feels so good. Humans will want to do it more, therefore making more offspring, therefore making their species thrive. I'm not saying that a person will think exactly that, but that's the underlying reason why. Although I do agree with you about how ironic birth control is. Humans want to fulfill their sex drive, but nowadays people don't want the responsibility of a child until they're ready for one, and so, the pill, the rubber, you name it, was invented. Also, the "lust" doesn't come from your heart. Sorry to crush the picture of it being the organ of love, but the heart is just a mass of muscle tissue that pumps blood throughout the body. The feeling of lust comes from hormones in the brains and gonads. And I'm not telling you something just to make me feel better about whatever, I'm repeating what's in almost every scientific textbook I've ever read regarding the subject.

I personally kind of like glasses. Also, I think it was Super Robot that said it, but I also like kinda tomboyish girls. However, neither of those are really "requirements", just pluses.

[Mirus]

Right, the part about the heart was partly a joke, guys need the heart to pump blood to their organs, yes?

Another tomboy fetish?! x_x;


I'm so unpopular *shrinks*

Personally, I dislike girls who act tomboyish usually because they have terrible fashion sense and don't really take care of themselves

[Azure Knight]

Don't get me wrong, I don't like it when girls don't take care of themselves at all. But I don't want a girlfriend that's too afraid to get herself dirty every now and then. And for you pervs out there, I don't mean THAT kind of dirty. Shame on y'all...

[zerokoolpsx]

The bare minimum as in I don't expect this to last more than a few days to a few weeks.

-Gonna be honest here, must be somewhat attractive, but hotter doesn't always mean better.
-Must be able to hold an intelligent conversation.

Recommended Requirements:

-Attractive
-Able to hold an intelligent conversation.
-Sense of humor
-Competitive
-Must be confident about herself.
-Open minded
-Understanding and thoughtful

Maximum Requirement:

She doesn't exist, enough said.

Pluses.
-Able to argue in a logical manner i.e. no screaming or yelling. No guilt trip either.
-Sharing similiar interests.
-Able to forgive another person for their consequences of their actions.
-Honesty is the best policy!

Minuses.
-Holding grudges, regardless of what happened.
-Taking advantage of others.

I can't really think of anything else off the top of my head.

[TheSorrow]

I don't have a tomboy fetish myself, and as long as the girl fulfills the requirements said, and hopefully has a few of the preferred requirements, i don't really mind what kind of girl it is...it's simply something i don't really pay attention to much to even put it anywhere as a "requirement". Sure, i might fall more for the clumsy and shy, or the intelligent and quite-kind of girls, and seem to be away from the loud and aggresive kind...but, if anything, that's only because the shy/quiet/intelligent girls seem to fit my requirements more, while the aggresive are usually the demanding ones that put material things on top of love. There might be exceptions, and if a girl is a full tomboy but fulfills my requirements good enough, while another is quiet and shy but fails in at least one of them, i'll go with the tomboy one. The way they are, and the stereotype they fall into, and all that, it's nothing i'm really concerned about :P

[Azure Knight]

I agree with you about liking quieter girls. I don't like it when people in general think that they HAVE to be loud and crazy 24/7.

[FallenDragon]

Share same interests, has the same sort of humor as mine (which is a variety from sarcasm, witty puns, deadpan, etc.), honest, smart (not asking for a rocket scientist), responsible and has average weight.
That’s just minimum requirements. Although I’m really picky, and my list of requirements can be pretty long.
Also my dislikes: self-centered ones, flirtatious type, drama queens (seriously, this one is the worst for me).

Personally, I dislike girls who act tomboyish usually because they have terrible fashion sense and don't really take care of themselves

Not having fashion sense has nothing to do with being a tomboy, neither the lack of self-sense.

Also on the fetish topic, I'm pretty sure every single person has at least one but probably not all know of this or better said, are aware of this; but I won't go further into that XD

[Mirus]

Personally, I dislike girls who act tomboyish usually because they have terrible fashion sense and don't really take care of themselves

Not having fashion sense has nothing to do with being a tomboy, neither the lack of self-sense.

No offense, but ALL the tomboys i've met don't brush their hair or fix it at all, act like boys and dress like boys, I find that distasteful for a girl

Notice I also said "Usually" because I know I haven't met every single tomboy in the world.


And fetish translates into a feature a person likes so yes, everyone has fetishes just not really strange ones.


I also like guys who can take hints, but those are scarce

[FallenDragon]

Yeah, I know you said usually, as hard as it was to read with all the bright pink (haha, kidding kidding). I was simply stating that your dislike isn't exactly directed at tomboys, mostly seems to be towards those flaws some people have, which apparently you have linked with the tomboys you have met in your life; sorry if I didn't make myself clear.